Thursday, July 05, 2007

WW3

My head wrapped in a towel. Cant wait to share what has happened today at contract..first part was unsually quiet. Once in the blue moon the gal i mentioned came late to class and thus she did not talk much. We thought she has learned her lesson form last week being overly aggressive. For a simple statement of "First come,first served" errupted a nuclear bomb in our class. In discussing whether it was an offer or not, interested speakers can raised up tehir hand and wait for their turn. Eager as I am, I crept up in front and waited for my turn. When my turn came I started addressing my points and she started to talk. i was angry and told firmly,"Pls let me finish". She unhappily took her seat. mind you this was in the class about 40 ppl..After i finish she quickly stand up and rebutt my points.I sat back at behind and was discussing with my frens when shouted and said she was asking question at me. I turned and said could you repeat. She raised her voice even louder and pointing fingers at me. I told her Pls do not point fingers at me. Then the whole class was in havoc and she was pissed finally burst and shouted Could you pls shut up and listen. Everyone was in shock even the lecturer. She din get to finish her point when evrybody told her to calm down and do no take personally. Some was booing,some was talking back at her etc. I was in a state of shock. After class I wanted to talk to Miss Meera about finidng her attitude in arguments is too much. She would not let other finish and would not wait her turn to speak. i thoguth it was a private matter when one by one cam into the conversation. I felt bad cause it was not my intention for so many ppl to bad mouthed her. I told miss Meera all I want is for her to control her temper and let other finish first. Miss Meera said she understand. But deep down I feel guilty. Should I talk to her personally first?> I thought about that but I think she knew people are uncomfortable with her actions cause when she stood up to talk, people will like breath a heavy sigh and some said pls be peaceful and no hand gestures. People were laughing but she heard it. She knew but yet at the last burst or anger some just could not take it and complaine to Miss Meera. I'm not gonna be in tutorial next week so I hope la got difference a bit. I'm not like so good but at least I got frens who told me if i'm going borderline...Sigh what a tiring day...

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